BETAAAAAAAAAAA MAAAAAAAAAALE!!!!When I got the news. It messed me up. Her, even more so. We weren't an item. We were colleagues. I told her I'd support whatever her mind came up with. So that's that basically.. I take full responsibility for this as is it were my choice. But it wasn't my choice.. Nor should it have been. It was hers. I'm glad she had one. Men need to stay behind the line on this one imo.
It was your choice and you should have never let her have an abortion.
Similar to saying "I killed 10 people in my city, how does that affect you in your own city?"I've had an abortion....so tell me something... HOW in the fuck did it affect you?
Which is fine, I'll answer it.
The child can be an asset for the whole community. That's why it's illegal for parents to kill their already born child. Why? Because someone else might want to take and care about that child. Also because you are not the child. They are a different person from their parents.
The survival of an individual depends on the survival of the whole community. If the community starts falling apart, so will the individuals of that community.
Your child is primarily your own responsibility. Just like my child is, will be, primarily my own responsibility.Where were you when I was going through it? How has my decision changed your life? Do you care about a child's life beyond it entering into this world? Then why aren't you there for my kids now?
I didn't milk your sperm and inject it into your girlfriend. That's not how it works.